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Its amazing how much blurting out what you dont want to say, helps in firming up what you should've said correct in first place!!! I always had this belief that acceptance is THE most important recognition one can ever get. Surprisingly, the moment i heard myself saying this as a reason for something in a discussion, i realised how silly it sounded!!! Just because someone doesnt accept what you propose how does that change your approach towards that issue or even towards that person?? If it changes like that. is it really worth to pursue such an attitude? I learnt that the answer is no and its wrong to pursue such an approach. It gives a false sense of belief that if i expect to be accepted everytime, it actually means denying the other person their right to express their opinion!! Every one is entitled to their views and though it maynot be something which i want to hear or like, it has to be respected. Sounds so simple when i type..but really a hard thing to do. Idhellam en maatikarathuku munna thona maatenguthu!! :(

Comments

RS said…
Baas, these days you think a loooooooooooooot!! Why strain yourself so much??? If only we knew to tame our tongues!! sigh!!!
Ramesh said…
Gilsu is becoming a philosopher .....
Deepa said…
Dude! very well said.

But have to say, you do think a lot. Just take care of the gray hair it may cause, or complete loss of it, no matter the colour. Take good care of your hair, it doesn't come back once its gray or gone! :)
R-ambam said…
actually purila .. as though , u proposed someone, and the girl declined :D crooked me .. !
RamMmm said…
Good post Gils. Absolutely accept that there is always an implicit craving for being accepted (all the more good, if it is as you are) It is a 'high'. If you see a different acceptable view than yours, the confrontationist in you will flare up to defend your point. As you say, that conditioning to accept the other view is not easy at all. You can see similar behaviour in children in a slightly parallel context. Kaettadhellaam vaangi kuduththuttu, if you refuse once, the tantrums and moonji thookals are to be seen. :(
Aaarti said…
Hmm, now i make more sense of what we were talking about last nite!!

well, it is only Human to want to be accepted and to want our ideas to have a place in the discussion= this holds true at personal and professional front!! :)

Dont think too much da... rhomba tiring :)
ambulisamma said…
Enna aachu?
Are you alrite?
gils said…
//If only we knew to tame our tongues!! sigh!!!
//

taming mind leads to tongue getting tames automatically. cha..enna oru sinthanai...epdi gils ithelam!!! ennamo poda :)
gils said…
@porks:

:)

@thala:

apdilaam ila thala..idle mind..devils factory :D
gils said…
// Just take care of the gray hair it may cause, or complete loss of it, no matter the colour. Take good care of your hair, it doesn't come back once its gray or gone! :)
/

LOL :D have u seen any pic of mine already??!! my hair has gone grey even in my school days :)
gils said…
//actually purila .. as though , u proposed someone, and the girl declined :D crooked me .. !

//

ROTFL :D :D chaanceleeenga..come to think of it..even to me, if i read it now..it sounds like that..chaancela..enna oru sinthanainga ungaluku :D
gils said…
//Good post Gils.//

:D :D so this is the first acceptance comment for this post?? :D :D :D

//You can see similar behaviour in children in a slightly parallel context. Kaettadhellaam vaangi kuduththuttu, if you refuse once, the tantrums and moonji thookals are to be seen. :(///

hahaah...el nino and la nina panra velaio? :D :D
gils said…
@rt:

:)) i know..and i also know whom to call to confuse in such cases :D :D
gils said…
@am:

me the bino bine :D
lakshmi said…
hey gilsku english nalla varuthae... sooooooooper
lostworld said…
Came to tell u that I watched 'Singam'!(guessing you haven't yet seen it cos your review isn't put yet)! ;-D I am first!!
gils said…
@laks:

:)

@lw:

me too saw the movie..but no review putting...avlo impress agala
chennaigirl said…
LOL @ R-ambam's comment. Enakkum appadithaaan thonarthu :) Vara vara romba confused ah ve irukeeenga.
RS said…
blog templatelaam maathi, blog orey colorful-a kalakattuthu baas!!:D gils lifeleyum orey the colors of India va irukumo?????
Anonymous said…
??!!! Template change!!! Idhu eppo nadandhudhu???

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