Ode to the Nice Guys

This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl's every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.
This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they're at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don't end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.
This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn't worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you'd ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn't have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing "serious" between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: "oh, but we're just friends!" And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you're nice like that.
The nice guys don't often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don't seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can't. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as "oh, he's too nice to date" or "he would be a good boyfriend but he's not for me" or "he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn't possibly ask him out!" or the most frustrating of all: "no, it would ruin our friendship." Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can't figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I'm going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn't last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single. So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you're sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.....

P.S:
Couldnt resist posting this...want to know ur feedback...surprisingly, the gals to whom i sent ,where vociferous in support for the nice guys..many of them commenting to the extent tht , they agreed most gals are stupid in choosing bad guys over nice guys et al....heheehe...etho nammalaala mudinja ubagarama inga koluthi potruken...ini nadapavai narayanan seyal :D :D

Comments

prithz said…
firsthuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.. comment.. nextsthuuuuuuuuu!! :P
G3 said…
justu missu :(
gils said…
:D surprise!!! thot since g3 was arnd it wud be her :D gud gud.nice to c complan gal back in form...n doode...ur butterscotch is getting a a shade nearer i wud say ;)
gils said…
pona poatum...g3kum undu :D
prithz said…
Hey!!! Gils!!! Awesome post!!! the best one i have read till date in any blog!!! seriously!!! Thoroughly loved it!!! feel like readin again n again.. i can completely relate to wat u r sayin!!! totally! Its jsu too good... HUGGGGZZZZZ!!!

i wud love to have a guy like that.. am yet to find one tho.. trust me... that there r a few girls like me who are looking for those "nice" guys u mentioned.... :)

OMG!!! i dunno how to tell u how much i loved this post!! Superrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!

Complan gal??? LOL!! cute! :D
prithz said…
oki.. i am gettin totally obsessed with this post.. i dunno y.. but i jus finished reading it for the 5th time!!! exam nerathula, indha maadiri post pootu padikaveeeeeeeeee vidamaatengaringa gils!! :'(

I cant stop sayin it.. but it was SPLENDID!!! (i am not exaggerating, trust me!)
KK said…
Hey Gils, Thanks for the tribute :)

I just came to put attendence seeing the size of the post... but later when I saw prithz comment, could'nt resist from reading... Nice post...

Namma maathiri nalla pasangalukku kaaga ivaluv periya post poturukeenga.... awwwwwwwwwwwwww :)
gils said…
@prithz:
:D relax..relax...nice to see u back to ur hyperactive self :)...i somehow felt more related to the theme...so decided to post it

@kk:
:D namma katchi makkala ellamay rommmmmmmmmmmbbaaaaaaa nice makkalaaachay..pona porathu..edir katchium sethukalaam :D
prithz said…
Oyiiii gils.... y suddenly such feelings??? Sollunga sollunga... yeannaku unmai therinjeeeeeee aaganum!! :P
prithz said…
oki..finally.. inniki studies target um mudichachu... thoongarthu munnadi.. onnuru tarava indha post padichum mudichachu.... complan girl good girl!! :P

now me off to sleep.... gud nite!! tata! :D
gils said…
suddenlalaam onum ila...chk my old posts..ithey themela rendu moonu post iruku :D..padichacha..gud gud..epo exam...*itha thaan thattu maatharathunu solvaangalo:)*
Janani said…
Lovely post.... Nice guys ku romba ve (konjam adigamave) support panni irukeenga... But agreed!!!!!!!
gils said…
@jan:
enga tribea naanga support pannama vera yaar panrathu...hehehe
gils said…
@prithz:
appovay kekanumnu ninachen...ivlo overa pheel panni post padikara..enna matter...wats cooking girlie :D
Venkatesh said…
first time here.. super post.. engayo poiteenga.. never read a post like this.. engala mathri nice guys kku special potta ungalakku romba thanks.. :-) mount roadlula oru cut-out vechu athukku keela unga posta podanum..

@prithz: entha postku evaluvu excitement?? something something..
Venkatesh said…
entha posta padichathukku apporom every nice guy will feel "proud" being a nice guy.. ;-)
Sat said…
vaayla nalla varuthu
engendhu thaan ippadi thonutho...
innum ennenamo solluven...venam
gils said…
@venky:
velgum..velgumm...mount roadnadula silalaam vekak venaam....anavasiyama traffic jam aagum hehehe

@sat:
ekkoi...itha itha thaan edirpaathen...cmon tiger cmon tiger
G3 said…
Hello.. Avar cut-out dhaanae veikkarennu sonnar.. Ungalukku sela veikkanumna nera solla vendiyadhu dhaanae.. Adhu en marai mugama sela vendaamnu dialogue? Aniyaayathukku asal arasaiyalvaadhi maadiriyae pesareenga :P
gils said…
cutoutna aduthu sila thana...hehe konjam advance technologyakum
gils said…
@g3:
silai vaithu per vaangubavar ullargal...kutram kandupidithey per vaangubavargalum undu..idhil neenga entha ragamnu ungalukey theriyumm
G3 said…
//kutram kandupidithey per vaangubavargalum undu//
Namakku edhula therama irukko adhula dhaana munnera mudiyum.. :)

Theriyaadha vishayathula mooka nozhachu aappu vaangaradha vida idhu thevala illa :D
Sat said…
indha nice guys (read maakkans) pathi oru movie vanduchu...just friends-nu....around last year or early this year i guess...perusa thathuvam unnum sollala, but nalla time pass...romba naal kalichu theatre-la ellarum bayandhu odura alavukku sirichadhu andha padam paakurappo thaan!
Has to be me said…
Seriyana post Gils! Whats the inspiration behind the same?! ;)
Anonymous said…
Good one ..but need clarification on one point .."Anniyan Ambhi" maaathiri Nice guy yaa erunthaa ponnunga kandukka maataanga ..appo "Remo" vaa maaralaamaa ??? ennaku ennamo "Anniyan" than entha post ku inspiration nu thonuthu ...

Ravusuparty Ramanath
gils said…
@g3:
thoda....ithu veraya...hmmm...irunga unga comment maila post panren
gils said…
@sat:
just friends??movie name correcta solungalen..i like desi movies based on US :) have u seen flavors...it had some funny moments...
@htbm:
hehehe....enakoru doubtu..atha thani commenta podren

@ram:

adai...naan rules mana ila removanu theiryathu.maganay unakku anniyan thaanda...kabeemkubaam muraila una poatu thalla poren paaru
gils said…
my comment on my post :
makkalay the very intention of posting ths fwd was to kilarify ur thots n know how hard u feel abt these things...i was expecting semma strong opposition frm magalir ani...but many folks actually liked it!!! my thots goes something like this...a nice person (i said person..not guy nor gal...just to make it unisex :) no contros pls) for me is one whos HONEST...given watever the situation is..if u can approach tht person believing he/she wud be someone who can be TRUSTed...well...tht wud be THE nice quality..guess with honesty nd truth everything else mentioned comes automatically...if these two lack...however hard we try to cover it up by puttin fake maska chaska...nothing will work out..i make it a point tt even if it makes me unpopular at times..i stick to truth..always..not even most of the times....thanks for all ur comments...it made really interesting reading..and in the end..everyone is entitled to his/her views right :)
KK said…
Coreect ba!! :)
Priya said…
western impact romba adhigam irukkara madhiri irukku. Namma ooru ponnungalam ipdi illa. ivlo nice (e va ??) ana guys irukkara madhiriyum theriyala!
gils said…
@kk:
as always :D
@pri:
western impacta??!!etha solreenga?
uthraa said…
ka ka ka po!

But I hope you would agree that there is an other side to every coin...
uthraa said…
//western impact romba adhigam irukkara madhiri irukku. Namma ooru ponnungalam ipdi illa. ivlo nice (e va ??) ana guys irukkara madhiriyum theriyala!//

correkitaa sonnenga! I second this thought!!!
gils said…
@uth:
enan sola vara???onum purila...ithila western influence enga vanthuchi
G3 said…
//irunga unga comment maila post panren //
Indha meratalukkulaan naanga asaramaattom :P (Chey.. neenga ippadi solluveengannu therinjirundha andha posta mattum thittaama ungalaiyum thitttiyirupanae mailla... :( No problem.. next time gavanichikkaren :P)


//i stick to truth..always//
Naanum idhey katchi dhaan.. Poi solli maatradha vida unmaiya solli thittu vaangaradhu evlavo mel.. Naan eppavumae unmaiya pesaren pervazhinnu mathavangala maati vittuttu okkandhuduven.. :P [appuram dharma adi vaanginadha pathilaan inga pesapudaadhu :D]
gils said…
unmaila pala type irukunga...naan solrathellam unmaiyaana unmai type...vaariyar swamigaloda speech collectionla padicha oru example...boomila vlo pangu thanni evlo nelamnu oru school teacher paiyan kita ketaram...paiyan 100 percent landnu sonnanam...epdida..75% waternu unakkutheriyatha..benchu mela eri niludanu sonathuku..aiya...75% kadal ok..kadalukadilayum..thara thana iruku..apo 100% landthanannu ketaanam..naama latter katchiyaakum :D so adilaam vanga maatoam..safe distance... :D
G3 said…
//naama latter katchiyaakum //
hehe.. Unga pechu theramaiya pathi dhaan engalukku nallavae theriyumae.. Super escapism partynnu :P
uthraa said…
I meant do all Indian girls go to pub, flirt with guys, go for late nite parties, etc.,

And how many Indian guys did you find escorting their gal frndz home late nite?

It doesnt suit the Indian scenario. May be found in the metros and cosmos... but that is jus 5% of the whole lot i guess...
Your point would only be applicable to a western country...

ippo puriyudha?!?!?!?!?
srivats said…
I guess this post is about ultra modern society which is available only in major cities .ie. creamy layer of the youth. I am really surprised to see this kind of post from you, is that because of all the frustration being a nice guy ?
gils said…
very clear...since all the topics discussed are considering such a small minority of grouup..thot by default we are referring to them only :)...anyway...u r missing the point here i guess..its not on how many people are like ths r nt..but ur views...

@stavris:

ennada same side goala :0
G3 said…
@Uthraa : //how many Indian guys did you find escorting their gal frndz home late nite//

Indha maadiri kenainga nerayavae irukkudhunga.. En gangliyae 2 per irukkaanunga.. and en officelayum indha maadiri makkalsa paathirukken.. sema comedya irukkum.. Oruthan veedu nungambakamla. ponnu veedu chrompetla. Office mudinjadhum paiyan daily poruppa avala kondu poi chrompetla vittuttu adhukkappuram nungambakkam povaan.. Athana naal office thaniya vandhavalukku ivan friendship kedachapuram mattum thaniya poga mudiyaadhu pola.. :D [Andha friendship lovea maary marriagela mudinjadhu vera kadha :)]
gils said…
appo enna solreenga g3??unga officela intha post oru real life stroya? :D
G3 said…
@Gils : Andha kenai guysa naan neraya paathirukken.. aana neenga soldra ultra modern girlsla naan paathadhilla :)
Syam said…
post size paarthitu attendance potutu polaamnu thaan vandhen...KK solrathu paartha etho visayam iruku pola poi padichitu varan :-)
Syam said…
gils ennathu ithu ore peelings of Antarctica va iruku...konjam padikka aarambicha vudaney therinju pochu ithu kandippa nammala pathi thaanu (you, KK & I)...hee hee nammala maathiri naalu nallavanga irukarathunaala thaan naatula sari venam kannu pattuda poguthu :-)
Syam said…
//Andha friendship lovea maary marriagela mudinjadhu vera kadha //

G3, love marrige la mudichiruchu illa....andha ponnu US maapilaya kalyaanam pannitu poirundha avan kenainu sollalaam :-)
gils said…
@g3:
gud guys are easy to find...gud gals are like UFO's....everyone has heard of them but no concrete proof of existence...ithaana solla vantheenga...neenga sonna correcta thaan irukum

@notaamai:

yeah yeah...nolla kannu onrai kannu...dori kannu...ella kanum patrum...ithoda G3 kanniayum sethukalama venamanu seyarkuzhula decide panikalam :D
gils said…
notaamai :D soopera sonnenga....US maaplaiya iruntha kandipa eena vaana thaan
KK said…
//ithoda G3 kanniayum sethukalama venamanu seyarkuzhula decide panikalam//
Unanimously selected...G3 kannum double ok... :)
G3 thalaye adamanam vechachu kannu yenna :)
Natamai shoka sonneenga... US mappilai vanthathum nammala maathiri nice guys'ku yellam dimiki than :(
Priya/G3/uthraa, Westernised outlook that gils has shown is just a sample to convey the idea... the same exists in different levels...Naan Gils solra ultra mordern gals paarthuiruken :)
prithz said…
Oh... well.. people seem to be talkin abt hte girl side of this issue which never struck me.. probably, its coz i havent had frnds of that kind or havnt been that type myself.. but its indeed patheic to imagine a girl like that... its truely is quite discomforting..
Syam said…
KK&gils, G3 kanna serthukalaam aana namma settu accept pannanumey yenna thalaya already adamaanam vechaachu :-)
KK said…
Syam,saettu vidala na namma Nayagan style'a saettu veetukku poiduvom... saettu veetu ponnunga super :)
gils said…
@kk;
//Naan Gils solra ultra mordern gals paarthuiruken :) //
innoru sub post onnu uruvaagara mathri theriyuthey... ;)

@prithz:
oi....relax...no tension..

@notaamai:
g3 thala adamaaanam vachathu meetacha ila moozhgi poacha..ethana naala thaaan avangalaum thala illama..hehehee...alaivaanga :D :D

@kk:
setttu veetuku poi..arey settuji me kkji bol raha hoon..thuddu kudungojinu sona kuduthurra maataru? ;))
artnavy said…
i had a nice guy in my life- still do but yes he finished last
Sat said…
Gils....adhu desi film illa...proper hollywood movie thaa...the anme is 'just friends'
i wonder if it ever released here...had its funny moments though...adhuvum openning shot-la oru gundu payyan andha 'boy band' paatu paduvaa....close up vera...aiyo...i couldn't stop laughing!!!
sari for ur benefit; imdb link
http://imdb.com/title/tt0433400/
gils said…
@art:
tho many mite differ..there is bound to be one such person in everyones life..whom we take for granted :)..painful truth...

@sat:
kalkiteenga ponga...danku
Has to be me said…
Enna doubt & comment yengay?
gils said…
@htbm:
athaan comment potrukenay..my views on thisnu...athaan...
G3 said…
KK,Syam & Gils : Ada paaveengala.. Comment count 58nnu paatha odanae en thala dhaan ulla urundirukkonnu oru doubtoda dhaan ulla vandhen.. Correcta prove panniteengalae.. En thalaya adamaanam vechadhillama ippo en kannukku vera kuriya? Inimae ungala vittu veikkaradhu aabathu.. Thookida vendiyadhu dhaan.. next time neenga chennai varum bodhu unga veetukku auto dhaan.. KKvum Syamum U.S.la irukkaradhaala angalaan auto poga mudiyaadhu.. So avangalukkum sethu katchi saarba ottu mothama ungala thaakaradhunnu mudivu panniyaachu.. Eppo vareengannu mattum sollidunga. Erpadu pannidaren.. :P
Gils,
(I dont know, whether it is only happening to me or others too face similar problem.. have already mentioned before.. everytime i try post a comment your page hangs and never allow me to do that.. anyway i regularly read yours..this time after trying many times, succeeded)

okay, I do remember some one's saying.. I read it some 11 years before..(i think I read it in one of the Issac Asimov's novel introduction- not sure).

since I liked those, I wrote in my diary and reproducing those here..

"A PERSON(male or female)WITH A LARGE NUMBER OF GOOD QUALITIES, WHO HAPPENED TO BE DISTINCTLY PLAIN MIGHT NOT BE LIKELY TO ENTANGLE YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE UNLESS YOU WERE INTELLIGENT ENOUGH TO SEE THOSE GOOD QUALITIES SO THAT YOU MIGHT SETTLE DOWN TO A LIFETIME OF HAPPINESS"

This is one of my favourite thing i read.. just came to my mind when i read your post.

Thanks for reminding me of this quote.(I dont know whether I will be able to see this comment in your page.. hope some day your page will allow me again to see this comment page)

Thanks for your comment in தாரிணி
G3 said…
@Syam : //ithu kandippa nammala pathi thaanu (you, KK & I)...//
Andha Nice Guys = Kenai, Ena Vana, Maakansnellam commentla pottirukkadha padichappuramnum neenga unga katchi makkala pathina unmaiya ippadi publicla othukkareengalae.. U r simply grt naatamai :P

@KK : //US mappilai vanthathum nammala maathiri nice guys'ku yellam dimiki than//
KK ippo andha US maapillai listla neenga add aayiruppeengandradhu Nyaabagam irukka? Ethana nice guysoda saabatha vaanga poreengalo :P
gils said…
//KKvum Syamum U.S.la irukkaradhaala angalaan auto poga mudiyaadhu//
enna oru kandupudipu...USku auto pogathunu kandupudicha G3ku intha varusha Nopal price...naalnaku vaangi kuduthurungapa...antha naalanava namma kathchi nidhilenthay kuduhuralam..paavam pona pogatum :D
gils said…
g3:
sarakadichitu venteengala..semma formla irukeenga :D...as for kk...avar enga irunthalaum nice guy thaan...so no kostin of saabam :D (kk--- Hi Fi..)

@thaarini:
varuga varuga..thangal varavu nalvaravaaguga...enthula comment podrathu avlo kashtama iruka...!!! yaarumay solaliye...may be because G3 is hyperactive..athunala kooda irukalam :D
gils said…
@thaarini:
wow...asimov fana...i luv his foundation series...got soft copies of tht too...en motha postayum naalu linela mudichiteenga..too gud...

"A PERSON(male or female)WITH A LARGE NUMBER OF GOOD QUALITIES, WHO HAPPENED TO BE DISTINCTLY PLAIN MIGHT NOT BE LIKELY TO ENTANGLE YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE UNLESS YOU WERE INTELLIGENT ENOUGH TO SEE THOSE GOOD QUALITIES SO THAT YOU MIGHT SETTLE DOWN TO A LIFETIME OF HAPPINESS"
gils said…
tharini= semaan seaman right??
G3 said…
//avar enga irunthalaum nice guy thaan//
Aama aama.. Rommmmmmmmba nice guy dhaan.. Neenga dhaan sollikanum :P

//because G3 is hyperactive//
Yov gils, idhu ungalukkae aniyaayama therila.. unga postla yaaraavadhu comment poda mudilanaalum adhukku naan dhaan kaaranama? too bad.. :-/

//tharini= semaan seaman right//
right right.. :D
G3 said…
//semma formla irukeenga//
Hmm.. Week startingla irundha moodukku total opposite moodla irukken nethularndhu.. enjoying like anything.. :D
KK said…
Gils, G3 yetho local'a auto vechu thookanum'nu lam solraanga... namma tanker lorry vechu antha auto'va slight'a oru thattu thatta sollunga... :)
Namma character'aya purinchika matengreengale... :)
Gils, Saetu veetukku poi nayagan style'a "dai Saetu Kamnaati..." appadinu than arambikanum :)
@G3, Neenga auto'la vanthu than thattuveenga... naanga auto'viye thattiduvom :)
//KK ippo andha US maapillai listla neenga add aayiruppeengandradhu Nyaabagam irukka? //
US maapillai'nrathu ingaye settle aanavangalukku nammala maathiri naadodi'ku kidayathu...
Gils super ida'va irukku, US'ku auto'la poga mudiyathunu kandupudicha G3'ku No Pal parizu kudupom... auto'va thattum bothu avanga pal'a yum serthu thatta sollidunga :)
KK said…
Naanga Hero illai Villain... (To be read in ajit's style)
G3 said…
@KK : Ungala pathi enakku theriyaadha.. Naan theliva auto anupparennu dhaan sonnaenae thavira autola naan varennu sollala.. :P Theliva padichittu appuram commentungo ji :D

//Naanga Hero illai Villain//
Adha thaan naanum soldren.. Indha gils dhaan ungala pathi thappu thappa purinjikittu nice guynnellaam sollittu thiriyaraaru.. Paavam andha appaviya overa thaan neenga emaathi vechirukkeenga :P
KK said…
G3, Neenga auto varatiyum unga palla thattuvom...auto'la vantha ore kal'a rendu maanga illati rendu kal'a rendu manga... kallu'ka panjam :)
Pothuvaga yen manasu thangam oru poti unu vanthuvitta singam.... Ungalukku than naanga villain... nallavangalukku nallavan kettavangulukku kettavan... yenga characteraye purinchika maatengreengale....
G3 said…
Aiya innikku full moodla office vandhirukkeenga pola.. Pakkam pakkama vasanam pesareenga? unga commenta mattum collect pannalae Gils thaniya 2-3 post pottudalaam pola irukkae.. :D

//nallavangalukku nallavan//
//Ungalukku than naanga villain//
2-dumae contradictory stmtsa irukkae.. Nallavangalukku nallavanna neenga enakkum nallavana thaan irundhiruppeenga.. Enakku neenga villana irukkaradhaala u r not nallavan.. :P
KK said…
long time back unga kitta sonnen diary'la kurichika solli... ithana naal intha KK'va neenga nanbana paartheenga... inimel...(lightning sound) inimel... intha KK'va neenga yethiriya paaka poreenga... Flashback panni paarunga...
Athu varaikum unga kitta nallavana irunthen... athuku appuram than ungalukku villain maarinen... kooti kazhichu paarunga kanakku correct'a varum... :)
G3 said…
aaha.. Wait pannitae irundhen. Neenag oru comment potta adutha 2 comment naan podanumnu.. Gils oda 75th commenta naanae podanumnu veetukku pogama okkandhirukka en poruppunarchiya paarunga.. Ivlo nalla edhir katchi yaarukkaavadhu kedaikkuma? :D
G3 said…
yahoo.. 75th comment.. Innikku poi naan chupera thoonguven.. Ok makkalae.. Idhukkaaga wait panni erkanavae late aayiduchu.. Me joot now.. Gils.. 75th commentukku oru spl treat reserved.. Emmathidadheengapa [* G3 asking with appavi face *]
Arunkumar said…
adada, bloglines sadi pannirku... unga post-a highlight pannave ille :(

//I can't figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I'm going to sleep with this complete ass now!). //

LOL... supero super :)

//
But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn't last forever.//

hope so :P

@g3,
75th ku wait panni comment ellam podreenga , unga thalai/kanna poi... saetu kamnaati kitta... cha cha, paavama irukku unga nelamaya nenacha :(

irundaalum enna maathiri nice guys kk,syam,gils kitta neenga periya levella vambu pannirpinga-nu thonudu.. adaan avanga saetu varaikum poirkaanga !!!

neenga ketta maathiri kuchi rotti/kuruvi mittai (read chocolate) ellam anuppi vaikren, inime nalla pullaya nadandukkanum.. sariya?

@nice guys,
LOL with that auto/no-pal jokes

-Arun
KK said…
Gils, Hi Fi koduka maranthuten... :(
Hi Fi!! :)
gils said…
@kk:
//yetho local'a auto vechu thookanum'nu lam solraanga... namma tanker lorry vechu antha auto'va slight'a oru thattu thatta sollunga... :)//
adhuuuuuuuuu....engayooooooo poiteenga...top gerala thaakareenga...soooerpapu :)

@g3:

//auto anupparennu dhaan sonnaenae thavira autola naan varennu sollala.. //

intha statement uttathukaga..intha varusha "mazhuppal maami" pattathai unopposedaga G3 perugirar enbathai...ingay announce seigiren...
//Paavam andha appaviya overa thaan neenga emaathi vechirukkeenga :P//

karisal boomiyil virisal undakka muyalum ithu edirkathiyin sadhi enbathu engaluku nanraga purigirathu...
gils said…
@kk:
//Gils, Saetu veetukku poi nayagan style'a "dai Saetu Kamnaati..." appadinu than arambikanum :)
//
hehehe...anniyan stylela kooda kekkalaam :D :D
//kooti kazhichu paarunga kanakku correct'a varum//

G3kku ...pulli vachu kolam podavum...darboosa paathiya saapdlaa ila fulla saapdlamanu kanaku podavum thaan varum...kootal perukallam peria mater..so discounted...
gils said…
@arun:
velgum velgum...mudha comemntay pattaya kilapureenga :D
//
irundaalum enna maathiri nice guys kk,syam,gils kitta neenga periya levella vambu pannirpinga-nu thonudu.. adaan avanga saetu varaikum poirkaanga !!!
//

nama katchiku one more urupinar :D
//
neenga ketta maathiri kuchi rotti/kuruvi mittai (read chocolate) ellam anuppi vaikren, inime nalla pullaya nadandukkanum.. sariya?
//

ROTFL... :D :D

//@niceguys://

idhu toppu :D
Contented said…
Hey Gils!

First time here! A great post! I really liked your discrption and I should say Its really a great tribute indeed!

Btw by any chance did u write about me?? LOL...:P
gils said…
@contended:
Velgum..velgum...if i say no...u mite feel discontented? :D :D jus kidding..its an ode to all nice guys....so u r also there :D
kanya said…
Gils....

Enna naan illaatha nerama paathu intha post pooteengala...

athu enna "the nice guys don't seem to get laid as often as they should"...

If even the nice guyz are expecting to get laid as often as the not so nice guyz ... then whatz the difference??

i agree, not all women are sensible enuf... the fact is not all men are nice either..

it is as difficult to find a nice guy as it is difficult for u to find the good onces amongst us...

ivlo thappaana atkala paatha apparam sariyaana aala paatha kooda santhegam varuthe... athe thaan ungalukkum... paakurathu ellam thappave paatha.. ellarume senseless illogical women'a thaane theriyuvom!!

aana onnu mattum unmai.. ungalukku thappu panna kooda thairiyam illaingurathu... athu nice guyz'kum ... not so nice guyz'kum serum... nice guyz panna mayapadura thappu... ponna namburathu... not so nice guyz panna mayapadura thappu.. sariyaana ponnu kitta maaturathu!!! :P

but atleast we have the gutz to make that mistake... ungala maathiri thappa'na choice pannitu apparam thadi valathikitu loosu maathiri ellam thiriya maatom'la..

anywayz... the bottom line is... kathal kathirikai ellam thooki poottutu ellarum ellarudaiya space'a respect panni vazha kathukitta ellarum nice thaan!!!

cheers
Kanya
gils said…
vanthutaangaaayaaaa...vanthutaangayyyyyyyyaaaaa.....ennada scroll bar kaanama poacheynu pathen :D kalakitenga..as usual caustic...somehow i feel the article is written by a frustrated soul rather than one with any substance....
Note:
ithuku thaan 83 commentanulam kekapdaathu..mer kooriyavai ennoda pershonal kommentaakum :D
Karthik B.S. said…
prithz blogla irundhu vandhen... .sooper post...

aaman indha ponnungale ippadi dhan! :)
Marutham said…
:> Hm..........
First time here!! And yeah sooper post dhaan.... Yenna oru AVALAM!!
ALo boss,, enn orediya many girlsnu pottu thittiteenga?? X-(

Thappu boss thappu... Shall i say something here on this note....
1) WHy do nice guys always easily fall for the BAD GIRLS??? Adhu unga thappu dhaaney... Say 20/21 years old...and can't u(i mean the guys u hav refrd to in this post) differentiate GOOD from the BAD!?
2) And yeah, i do accept ipadiyum ponnunga irukaanga.... Enna panradhu... in this era- i would say the percentage of these girls are outnumbering the percentag eof good girls.... Idhu enga poi mudiya pogudho?!! But ipdi ivangala keduthu kuttichevara vechrukradhukku kaaram not just them... U KNOW WHO :)

And it is sad of the nice guys who are easily //nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, // by their own friends sometimes.... :) appo yaarum kapatha mudiyadhey-- unless for himself...

:) Be carefull NICE guys...and annaar en ivlo feel agi ezhudhi irukeenga?? ;)
HE HE HE// theekuchi endha kadaila vanguneenga??? ;) Sem afire ponga...

Nice post & a sensible blog too...
Regards,
Marutham. :)
Marutham said…
Anaalum enakku purila...
en ivlo Urugi ezhudhi irukeenga??? ;) Yaaru pa andha ponnu?? :P
gils said…
@kbs:
ippothaan ithey paathen...vaanga vaanga :)
@marutham:
aaha...kanyaku poatti readyaa :D idhu fwdunga..naan ezhudala..disci paakaliya :)adhoda ennoda commentsnu poatu rendu moonu thadava en standa clear pani iruken :D
Anonymous said…
dei dei adanguda..

http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/%7Ejenf/writing/rant04.html

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