Sometime back i was in a situation. I could have delayed it and fixed it myself but since it was getting messier with each passing day i decided to take help and close it at the earliest. When in need, like everyone else, i've a select set of people who are my fallback options. Never for once i doubt their sincerity or their availability for me. Such is my loyalty to them i am sure same would be their feeling towards me. But on this particular incident..both the people whom i approached turned negative. Logically i could convince myself of the response..but emotionally it was a big blow. Their "NO" was heartbreaking. They were someone, who i consider a part of my life and to whom i approach to for any major decision in my life. Someone who know me better than most of the other folks. I had always taken them for granted to be available for me. That i realised was a major blunder and luckily for me that minor issue opened my eyes. Never for one moment i blame them or nor is this a post to bring them down or something. I felt just like me there might be folks around who have their own "comfort people" on whom rests their contingency plans. It never pays to take anything for granted..not even ur own shadow.
This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl's every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style. This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they...
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Let it go free and not hinder your friendship. At some point in time, if they have not told you the reason, they will. Give them that rope.
Peace.
absolutely...the idea behind the post is to bring out the "mirror" look of perception. u get "good" u do "good"...apdi pona entha relationum work out aagathu. at the same time..u going out of ur way to do things for people..while they remain selfish to themselves..apdi oru "eena vaana" va vum iruka kudathu :)
kandippa raammmmmmmmmmmmm.....giving ropelaam too much of a word. they are nice people..much much better people and much more matured than me. naan kiddisha yosikaratha vachu aduthavangala judge panna maaten :)
ithunaala thaan neenga g3ya irukeenga :D :D ipdiye maintain panikunga :)
Avalo thaan thalai mattera.. kareeta knadu pudichiteenga..
Oh chill gils, don't sweat the small stuff!! Go for a movie.
and please remove the word verification! easier to comment.
chillax yaar.. ithu ellam happens in our lives.!!
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this is more theoretical priya :) practicalla its an emotional thing and very difficult to gulp :)
hmmm..again..nothing matches the relish of bashing up people for watever little they did or otherwise :D but at the same time..putting myself in their shoes..i cudnt convince myself of their reaction towards my issue. Anyways..i am doing wat u've told here already :) giving lottttttt of rope :D
:)))
@kanagu:
//we can't take anything as granted from anybody...
//
athey athey
eppa saaami...thathuvamaananda
@nidhi:
/Avalo thaan thalai mattera.. kareeta knadu pudichiteenga..//
:D :D yeah
:) yeah will do tht :-)
@rt:
grrrrrrr..next time no amethyst. Nellai pazha rasam is ok for me.