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This month showed the real colours and flavors of many people in my life, especially how they will respond and react in times of trouble. I had a situation in my professional front that really tested the thin fabric of time, be it my past, my present or the immediate future. There were some incidents that really shook the foundations of my daily life and was desperately looking for help, some sort of a hold-on, to navigate myself. Help came from lot of quarters and with god's grace, by this time next week, i would be much more surefooted and secure than where i am and what i am today.

It may not be the time or place to vent out against those who couldn't care less about what happened and if at all they could've helped. But i am mere human and such negative thoughts are abound my mind at this moment and i couldn't quite think any less of them. There are certain situations that are hard to explain as to why they happen, but when they do happen, it makes even less sense as to why they happen to us, of all the people!! But eventually, like everything else, they also teach a valuable lesson or two or twenty, which leaves their remembrance scar on your psyche and mind.

Hopefully, things will take a turn for the better and pretty soon at that. 

P.S: in the last 20 days alone, the hit count of this blog has increased 7 times the usual monthly average, especially when i'ven't posted anything!! Enna thaan solla vareenga!! padikara mathiri post poatta naanga en varaama irukomnu solreengalo??!! Apdilam capakutty iruntha..hmmmm!!!

Comments

chennaigirl said…
Everything happens for good. This is what i always believe. God somehow brought you out of this situations through good people and I feel those who didnt care were not supposed to have any part in this. I know i sound so philosophical but i went through similar circumstance and this thinking is what helped me survive without hating anyone.
Hope everything is turning out good.
gils said…
Hope so.. Mikka nandri for the positive words
Ramesh said…
Sorry that you had some trying moments. You are a great guy and you will deal with everything that life sometimes might throw. But then when not so good times are there, they will be more than compensated by good times. Our best wishes are always with you Gilsu.

The blog count is no mystery. Your legions of fans were so upset by the lack of posts that we all logged in 5 times a day to check if there is a new post :)
gils said…
Nandri thala

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