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Reason,Season or Lifetime??

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People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this Person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

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P.S: intha asterixlaam naan sonthama poatathu..athuvum forward ila :)

People say do not count your blessings and also ask how many friends you have in same breath. I feel its ironic :) When i think of my friends i feel i've lived a full life :) my life is complete with them and bare without them. When i was a kid i always used to think...how many people would be actually thinking about me at this given instance? I always had my parents for an answer. But apart from them i couldn't guess (m)any. If at least for a single moment..long after i am gone..if someone thinks of me with a smile on their face..well...if....thats a big word isnt it :)

Comments

G3 said…
Pharshtu :)))
G3 said…
shyabada.. aayils innum varalae.. ini nimmadhiya poi posta padippen :D
G3 said…
//P.S: intha asterixlaam naan sonthama poatathu..athuvum forward ila :)//

Aaha.. enna oru kalaiunarvu.. enna arputhamaana vari... Asterix linea than sonnen :P
G3 said…
Sari.. sutta edathukku link ellam kudukka maateengala??

:))))))) Post pathi solla edhum perusa illae.. naan romba naal munnadiyae andha comment sectionla idha padichitten :D
à®®ீ த அஞ்சு :))

பாஞ்சு வந்திà®°ுச்சு தங்கச்சி!

சரி போகட்டுà®®் விட்டுக்கொடுப்போà®®் à®’à®°ு வாட்டி :)))
இந்த டைà®®ிà®™்கில் போஸ்ட் போட்ட கில்ஸ் à®’à®´ிக :)))))))))))))
dubukudisciple said…
gils,
really some times some friends are like boon some otherwise.. But i have always had a good set of friends and will always have..

One among them being U !!!!! :)))
gils said…
//ini nimmadhiya poi posta padippen//
ini nimmadiya poi saapdlamnu poda vantu ipdi maathapdaathu
gils said…
//Aaha.. enna oru kalaiunarvu.. enna arputhamaana vari... Asterix linea than sonnen :P//

hehehe...mikka nanni
//:))))))) Post pathi solla edhum perusa illae.. naan romba naal munnadiyae andha comment sectionla idha padichitten :D/

ada aniyayamay..last para enthu..
gils said…
//இந்த டைà®®ிà®™்கில் போஸ்ட் போட்ட கில்ஸ் à®’à®´ிக :))))))))))))//

heheh..soringa oilsanne..
gils said…
@dd:
avvvvvvvvvvvvvvv......ekkoi..pulalrika vachiteenga :D

@dp:
?? intha punnagaiku enna artham?
kanagu said…
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P.S: intha asterixlaam naan sonthama poatathu..athuvum forward ila :)

LOL அண்ணா.. :)

à®…à®°ுà®®ையான் பகிà®°்வு :)
sri said…
Achichoo ennada achu unakku.. orey bottel vittu pesara maari erukku.. yaar petha pillayo epdi ayiruchey!
FunScribbler said…
reason, season, lifetime...mmm...machi, are u alrite? romba philosophicalaa irukae?
gils said…
@kanagu:

:)

@vats:

bottle vita effecta..dei..sinus mandaia..ozhunga padichi paruda

@maanga:

philosophicalava iruku??? anyways :D fwdlaam anubavikanum..aarayapdaathu :D

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