Confused!!!

Should one be overtly optimistic about things and stretch on with the positive mirage or be prepared for the pessimistic reality??!!!
"What will happen if"...huh..these are the hardest four words to answer in life i guess..

Comments

Venkatesh said…
first post.. :-) after a looooog time..
Venkatesh said…
nalla kelvi.. I think there should be a good balance between the two.. easy to say, hard to achieve..
Bharani said…
annathe enna achi???
Sat said…
aba...this was truly short :P

hmmm....'IF' is a very bad bad mean word. Hope is even more dangerous
Prepare yourself for the worst, coz in all probability that's what's going to happen!
Sat said…
But do dreamers ever stop?
They would hold on to that feeble hope, keep building their castles of sand until they crash and burn. Then spend an eternity trying to forget all of those dreams....duh!
gils said…
@venky:
vaanga vaanga :) coming after long time :)
easy to say hard to achieve..hmm..vaasthavamaana pechu
gils said…
@bharani:
konpoosed... :(

@sat:
yeah..was too confused to type anything..
//Prepare yourself for the worst,//
hmmm..
//Then spend an eternity trying to forget all of those dreams....//
subera sonenga..fits me perfect...
Sat said…
edhu orey shogama irupeenga pola!!!...cheer up

P.S: kk paatu padinathunu ungala ivalo baadhichidicha?!
G3 said…
Thala.. ennadhidhu? idhukkum orkut picturekkum link perfecta irukkae..

Innikku dhaan ungala kekkanumnu nenachen.. veetla pen paarkum padalam aarambichaachanu.. neenga pottirukkara posta paatha edho velangara maadiri irukkae ;-) **Narayana Narayana** vandha velai over :-)
G3 said…
Rounda 10 :-)

Naan poi bsk-kitta sollanum.. Gils nijamaavae kuttiyoondu posta pottirukkarunnu ;-)
Ramya said…
Possibilities !! tch tch !
One musn't think so much !
Just do it, we can always repent and remorse later ! :D :D
gils said…
@sat:
sogamlaam ileenga...oray konpoosiona iruku...anyways :D
//kk paatu padinathunu ungala ivalo baadhichidicha?! //

sagava en ipdi vaaraareenga...avar oru isaiaruvi...kotti theethutar :D
gils said…
@g3:
//neenga pottirukkara posta paatha edho velangara maadiri irukkae//
ungaluku nera sonalay kozhapiduveenga...ipo kekavay venaam :)

@rams:
//Just do it, we can always repent and remorse later ! //

LOL..yeah..gud point :)
Janani said…
But at times thinking on both sides gives us energy to accept things what ever it may be. Be it something good or something too bad.

Relax first :-)
Karthik B.S. said…
idhu varaikum pota post'liye idhu dhaan topu! chanceless!

VAazhga nam katchi! :)
KK said…
Neengale confused'a??? Tirupathi'ke Laddu'a??? :D

Ok, I feel its better to always have an optimistic mind frame but at the same time should also think of what to do if it fails atleast once. This is because we should not be shocked if we fail. Be prepared but keep an optimistic approach...
Like in a game, there is a possiblity to lose but we should give our heart and soul and play till the end to win unlike the men in blue :)
KK said…
@Sat - //kk paatu padinathunu ungala ivalo baadhichidicha?!//
Oh yen paatukku ivaluv effect irukka???

Appo chennai vanthu continuous'a oru 10 paatu padamnum pola.... vaanam romba sogama aagi... kaneer mazhai'ya peiya arambichudum :)
Appuram makkal yenakku kovil'lam katti... wow! think pannave nalla iruke :)

Gils ithan optimistic thinking... athe time ippo sat kitta maatina yenna thorathi thorathi adipaanganu theriyum... but that should'nt stop me, optimistic'a Sat vara vara naama mokkai potute irukanum :)

So dont get confused, stay optimistic... but be prepared for the worst too :)
Arunkumar said…
no conpusan. relax.

men in blue have taught us what we shouldnt do :-)
priya said…
Gils- Adhan workload effect... If u r over optimistic, you will be very sensitive when you face
things negative.
Syam said…
enna kanpeesan....oru kottar vidunga ellam sari aagidum :-)
Priya said…
should not be overly optimistic. Neengale sollitinga 'overly'.. appadi irundha -ve situationla romba disappoint ayiduvom, handle panna mudiyadhu, depress ayiduvom.. Being confident Vs being over confident madhiri dhan..

Should be optimistic. But be prepared for what if case as well..
fun2fun said…
hey nice post!! [:)]
and yeah, adhigama hopes vechalum aapu thaan!! So its pretty much better to hav a balnced look on things!!

"What will happen if"...huh..these are the hardest four words to answer in life i guess..
so so true!!
Harish said…
we all survive because of IF....
Kelvi kekkalana vaazhkai edu..
Vidya said…
Hmm..I would like to think that the "what if" keeps us realistic. We can be as optimistic as it gets but real life could deal us a different deck of cards !! The "what if", when used in moderation will help ! The operative word here is "moderation"
:D

Vidya
G3 said…
velli vizha commentu :D
Sat said…
kk;
//Appo chennai vanthu continuous'a oru 10 paatu padamnum pola.... vaanam romba sogama aagi... kaneer mazhai'ya peiya arambichudum :)
//
noooo!
tsunami maari innoru perazhiva chennai-yala (in fact whole tmail nadaala) thaanga mudiyadhu...!!!!
vaanam matuma azhum...ottu motha tamil nadume aparam unga paata kettu kumuri kumuri azhum...aparam ellarum vellathula moozhgida poraanga....pls...shantham ayidunga, vendam indha kola veri!!!!
Marutham said…
Aha..GILS!!
Enna matter..Nala dhaney irundheenga...
//"What will happen if"...//
:O Edhuku indha message??
Apdi enna dhaan achu?


And neenga BAYANGARA THELIVAANA aatkala oruthar- neenga ipdi??
Elaam alright'a??
This is such a smaaaaaaaaal post from you..so it is starting to worry me...
Cheers Gills..
Edhuvaga irupinum adhu nandragavey nadakatum!!
Shuba said…
WOW
first time here but them real reasoning!!!!!!!!!I try to be realistic!than being optimistic!!!!!!!!being realistic neednt be actually becoming pessimistic...its jus getting more factual and taking up life wid less expectaions!being practical!

If u get confused im happy...cos that was wat i perfectly intended!
Yaara paathu romba naala kanumnu soneenga :p
Hehehe..Am very much alive ;)

And epdi ipdi ellam thinking? :) Nice thought thou ;)
stavirs said…
hey!
dont get what u said in this post, but wanted to tell u that I am here and reading ur posts,

Waiting for ur friends post as eager as i am waiting for unnale unnale film release

Take care and congrats for ur 100th post
KK said…
@Sat - ungalukkum vendam yenakkum vendam... 5 paatu... yenna sollureenga... vendumna ungalukkaga marina beach'la vechupom... neenga unga alternate tamil, english dialogue vittukonga :)
gils said…
@jan:
// thinking on both sides gives us energy to accept things what ever it may be//
:)somehow u remind me of my maths teacher :D
gils said…
yov bsk..enga romba naala aalay kanum?

@kk:
new situation saga..onu positive onu negativena ok..rendu positive is always conpoosing..road not travelled by Frost thaan nyabgam varuthu :)
gils said…
enna saga..pathupattu ettuthogainu sanga kaala rangeku poiteenga :) mokkai putting for sat...me d joining u :) no kostin of pessimism here :) neenga paadunga me d moojic n lyrics :) japanil kalyanaraman mathiri chennaiyil satnu padam potrulam :D
gils said…
@arun:
:( men in blue pathi pesatheenga..blue colora pathalay kadupa varuthu..the hurt wl take time to aarufy

@pri:
nalla soneenga :) english grammar has clue for this...past perfect future (cant be)tense :D epdi gils idu...unala matum epdi idellam mudiyuthu..ennamo poda
gils said…
notaamai..idu kwatter udra case iruntha case casea utrukalam.. :D

@pri:
neenga solrathu theory...wen things comes to decision taking over ur future...Remba kastam !!
gils said…
fun2fun:
theriyatha vishayathula epdinga balanceda irukarathu??

harish:
hmm..intha mathiri kelvi kekarathunala ennaku vedalamnu per vachitaanga..overa kadai vera ezhuthraen..so tally aaguthaam...grrrrrr
gils said…
@samename:
enaku rapidex padicha mathiri iruku..enna solla vareenga :D vidyanu per irunthalay kuzhapiruvaanganu ninakren :D

@sat:
//tsunami maari innoru perazhiva chennai-yala (in fact whole tmail nadaala) //
chennai mela avlo karisanam vanthirucha athukula...one weekend has worked wonders on u..KK paatuku ennaga kurachal..avar sruthi ethikitu inum paadala...aprum parunga :D
gils said…
@marutham:
//BAYANGARA THELIVAANA //
adicha kaipullaye ipdi irukanna adivanginavan epdi irupaan...avvvvvvvvvv
ipdi ethi vittay kavuthiraangaayaa

//This is such a smaaaaaaaaal post from you..so it is starting to worry me...//
kaavlaapadaatheenga..adutha postla poatu thaakiralam :D thanks for ur concern :)
gils said…
@shubha:
velgum velgum...
//If u get confused im happy...cos that was wat i perfectly intended! //
visu engleesla pesinapla iruku :D

@arisi:
nice thota?? hahaha

@satvris:
vaada silent reada...friends post nee thaana sonna romba chinatha irukunu athaan expandikitu iruken :D danx 4 d wishes
gils said…
@kk:
// vendumna ungalukkaga marina beach'la vechupom//
sabaash..sariyan stage...sangeetha kadalum singara kadalum oray edathula..poatu thaakunga kk..seerani arangam ungalukaaga thirumba katta sollidren
KK said…
//KK paatuku ennaga kurachal..avar sruthi ethikitu inum paadala...aprum parunga :D//

Appuram "Thanni thotti thedi vantha kannu kutti" than :)
KK said…
//.rendu positive is always conpoosing..//

intha maathiri situation'la generally I go by the gut feel... and be ready to face the consequences... illati confuse aagite iruka vendiyathu than :)
KK said…
//seerani arangam ungalukaaga thirumba katta sollidren//

Ippo illaya??? :-?
gils said…
@KK:
hehee..i had tht song only in mind :D seerani idichitanga thala..remba naal achu
Sat said…
kk and gils;
Thanni thotti thedi vantha kannu kutti...indha song sari varadhu....kenathadila salangai oli style-a paadite aduradhu innum top :P
ulagame azhinjidum :D
gils said…
ROTFL...hahahaa.chanceleenga..enaku oru nimisham KK balance panna kashtapadrathu kooda therinjuthu :D :D
priya said…
gils:

Rendu pri ku comemnts eruku. But confussed which one is for who?
gils said…
:D in the order of comment putting select the pri reply :D

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