Of relations and friendships
There used to be a time when I was literally jealous of my friends for having such a vibrant relationship with their cousins and extended families. One of my friends had a family setup literally like Vikraman movies. When her dad expired, the entire family comprising of her dad’s siblings and mom side siblings gathered to support her sisters and mom. Every function, be it simple or routine, mandatorily involved their family and they were not just supported but given utmost respect and care to the extent that she could settle abroad with her own family without having much guilt of leaving behind her mother. Another friend of mine used to have his cousins as his partner in crime when he goes for drinking/smoking or tasting nonveg items without the knowledge of their families. They played together, grew up together and stood for each other in times of need without even asking for or being conscious about it. For them staying together and being there for each other is not a separate a...